The perfect wedding guest guide

Don’t tell jokes at the couple’s expense. Don’t object at the church. Dance – even when you’re tired. I love you, you love me, AWWW, cut the cake etc etc. Weddings can be so much fun. As you RSVP without clouded anticipation, here’s your ultimate guide to mastering the art of being the perfect wedding guest with charm, grace, and impeccable fashion sense. Don’t wear white. Or wear the white Donna with a knockout sequin skirt. We approve. 

 

The cornerstone of being a proper wedding guest begins with decoding the dress code. Whether the invitation reads "black-tie," "cocktail attire," or "beach chic," adhere to the specified dress code with finesse. For a black-tie affair, opt for a floor-length gown or a sophisticated tuxedo. Cocktail attire calls for elegant knee-length dresses or sharp suits. Beach weddings welcome flowy maxi dresses or linen suits in light hues. The Bianca dress is so perfect for all of these wedding variations due to its detachable ruffles!

While it's tempting to steal the spotlight because you’re stunning, hilarious and the best dancer ever, remember that a wedding is primarily about the couple. Avoid wearing anything overtly attention-grabbing. Instead, choose outfits that complement the wedding theme and location. Embrace tasteful accessories—a statement necklace, elegant clutch, or a dapper pocket square—to elevate your ensemble without overshadowing the bride and groom. Control yourself.

When it comes to wedding gifts, consider the couple's preferences and any registry they’ve created or a check for the dinner plate amount. Be generous. Opt for something thoughtful and within your means, whether it’s a personalized keepsake, a contribution to their honeymoon fund, or a registry item they’ll cherish. Include a heartfelt card expressing your well-wishes and gratitude for being included in their special day.

You’re tired. We get it. As the celebration draws to a close, bid farewell to the couple and their families with gratitude and grace. Avoid leaving early unless absolutely necessary, and if you must depart, discreetly inform the hosts in advance. Thank your hosts for a wonderful time and express your appreciation for being part of their memorable day. One day it will be about you, I swear. Just not today.

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